Selfcare Tips

All these resources and techniques require no special purchases, subscriptions, or fees. They just need your commitment towards better mental health.

  • Box Breathing: 4 counts in, hold 4, out 4, hold 4. Perfect between meetings or in traffic
  • Cold Water Face Splash: Activates your body’s natural reset mechanism
  • Power Posture: Stand like Superman for 2 minutes before stressful situations
  • Tactical Breathing: Military technique – breathe in through nose for 4, hold 4, out through mouth for 4
  • Sound Zoning: Identify the quietest spot in your home for decompression
  • Scent Association: Use soap, lotion, or food smells to create calming triggers
  • The 20-20-20 Rule: Every 20 minutes, look at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds
  • Desk Push-ups: Break mental fog with 10 push-ups against your desk
  • Walk and Talk: Take phone calls standing or walking when possible
  • Stair Climbing: Use stairs instead of elevators for instant mood boost
  • Energy Vampires List: Write down people/activities that drain you, plan accordingly
  • Peak Performance Timing: Track when you feel most alert, schedule important tasks then
  • Micro-Recovery: 30-second breaks every 25 minutes (look away, stretch, breathe)
  • Tech Curfew: Screens off 1 hour before bed – read library books, stretch, or plan tomorrow instead
  • Brain Dump: Write down 3 things from today and 3 priorities for tomorrow on any paper
  • Temperature Drop: Open windows or adjust thermostat for cooler sleep
  • Gratitude Practice: Name 1 win from today, however small
  • Mindful Coffee: Focus completely on taste, smell, and warmth for 2 minutes
  • Shower Meditation: Pay attention to water temperature and sensation
  • Traffic Light Breathing: Use red lights as cues to take 3 deep breaths
  • Single-Tasking: Do one thing at a time for 15-minute blocks
  • The 5-4-3-2-1 Technique: When overwhelmed, name 5 things you see, 4 you can touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste
  • Failure Reframe: Ask “What did this teach me?” instead of “Why did this happen to me?”
  • Energy Audit: Track what activities drain vs. energize you using free note-taking
  • Boundary Practice: Say “Let me check my schedule and get back to you” instead of automatic “yes”
  • The 5-Minute Friend Rule: Text one person daily for 5 minutes of genuine connection
  • Compliment Challenge: Give one sincere compliment daily (boosts others and your mood)
  • Active Listening Practice: Focus completely on others without planning your response
  • Vulnerability Ladder: Gradually share more personal thoughts with trusted people
  • 4-7-8 Breathing: Inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8 (great for sleep)
  • Bellows Breath: Quick, energizing breaths through nose (10 rapid breaths)
  • Alternate Nostril Breathing: Use thumb/finger to alternate breathing through each nostril
  • Sighing: Intentional, loud sighs release physical and emotional tension
  • Worst Case Scenario Planning: Write out your worst fear, then write 3 ways you’d handle it
  • Values Clarification: List your top 5 values, then check if your actions align with them
  • Sleep Story Creation: Make up boring stories in your head to distract from worries
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation: Tense and release each muscle group from toes to head
  • The 20-Minute Rule: If not asleep in 20 minutes, get up and do quiet activity until sleepy
  • Morning Light Exposure: Get sunlight in your eyes within 1 hour of waking
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